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Doubting Thomas

September 29th, 2014 at 2:35 pm by under 10 On Your Side, Community, Health, Military, News, Personalities, Uncategorized

Doubting Thomas

What would you do? I was driving through a neighborhood and saw a man, lying on the street. In those few seconds- as best I could determine from a moving vehicle- he didn’t move. First thought- “keep on going. He’s sleeping ‘it’ off.” Second thought: “Uh oh. What if he just collapsed from some other health problem and was dying; or maybe he was a victim of a hit-and-run, or, he just got ‘jacked’?” I ran through a bunch of other “What If’s” by the time I’d gotten two blocks away. My answer to one of those questions was – DO SOMETHING.

This happened Saturday evening along busy Warwick Boulevard in the “trendy” Hilton area of Newport News. Who knows how long he’d been there? I’m guessing – dozens of other drivers passed him by, too, as I had to wait a traffic light cycle or two to make my U. As I doubled back, I realized I was just a couple of blocks away from the GOODWILL and CHKD second hand stores. U-turn complete and… he was still there. Still not moving. I pulled over, parked and headed for him.

If he’s unresponsive, or obviously hurt, of course I’m going to dial 9-1-1. But what if he’s just “sleeping it off” or mentally ill, and he’s “clingy” or violent, what do I do then? (Don’t know KARATE- I watched for 3 years as my son trained for his black belt. It’s been ’bout 50 years since my last STREET FIGHT. Hey, I can still run!) Those thoughts- and the standard one from my wife: “CALL 9-1-1.”

No. I had to personally get involved.

I reach the guy. He looked like a younger Tommie Lee Jones, but with white hair. “Hey, brother, you alright?” He actually looked kind of comfortable on the manicured edge of a bank’s property. He jerked in reaction to my voice, then said: “Who the f— wants to know?” Back and forth for about a minute- I’m asking him obligatory questions- he’s cussing me out for disturbing him. And, as we go at it, I notice both his lower legs are metallic. And his 3rd leg, a cane, is on the ground, just out of reach. His eyes are glazed, but not quite bloodshot. He’s angry at the world, still cussin’. And then he loudly proclaims: “I’M GOING STRAIGHT TO HELL! I KNOW IT!” And then he gives me an exaggerated, wide-eyed look as if he’s trying to scare the h— out of me! I am scared, but I’m not running. He said his name was THOMAS. He quickly corrected that and then called himself “Doubting Thomas.”

I’m now “Paralyzed Don.” What do I do now? I’ve engaged him, he’s in need of some kind of help; he’s angry, possible drunk; I’ve got no answers, and, I’m not going to just walk away. I make the cliched offer: “Can I get you something to eat?” And then I step across my wife’s line – “Want a ride to the shelter?” He answers “No! I’ve had a ‘couple’- and the Mission won’t take you if you’ve been drinking.”

So now what? Thomas says someone ripped off his bag with all his stuff. Coat’s gone, too, and it’s going to be cold again tonight. Aha! There is something I CAN DO. But, what’s my exit strategy? THOMAS needs help. He doesn’t want me to do anything but to get out of his way so he can got to H—. Now, standing on his tennis-shoe-wrapped metalic feet, I guess he saw how hopeless I looked. I wasn’t preaching, or offering him any money. And he wasn’t going to stick around for the 9-1-1 guys.

I let him go, got in my car and u-turned toward the GOOD WILL. They had a nice peacoat onsale for  ONLY 8.99. Now, to find him. THOMAS perched himself between two dumpsters behind a 7-11. He seemed surprised I found him. Thomas reminded me he was on his way to H—. But he doesn’t have to be cold along the way. Thomas saw what was in my hand and rejected it. I told him I’d leave the coat on the side of the dumpster incase he changed his mind. As I walked away, he said… Thanks.  He’s probably still out there. What should I have done? How about you?  And, one more thing: On the day I’m writing this, I just happened to find this post on my facebook page- a homeless guy named RONALD, telling his story. Tell me what you think, here, or on my facebook page.  Thanks.

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Hey Daddy, Read This

June 12th, 2014 at 2:09 pm by under 10 On Your Side, Community, Health, News, Personalities, Uncategorized

   “Many thoughts come to mind this  FATHER’S DAY 1993!  Father's Day 599693_10100713632756286_1292965230_n

How thankful I am to have a dad.. and all that you’ve done for me.

    You know my three children well.. their ages are 17, 10, and 7.

Kristen’s the oldest, and the there’s Dawn, and last, but not, least, is Kevin.

    My wife and my children are my greatest blessings, but let me brag about you,  dad.

 You’ve always been there for me, my brothers, sisters, mom, and I’m glad.

    While we grew up, you worked several jobs, ’cause you felt you had to do it.

We had what we needed and sometimes more- we just asked and you saw to it.

   I remember days you worked late, we knew you were home by the squeal of car brakes without fail.

Your arrival was usually good news, unless you had too spank my tail!

   Dad, you seemed to never miss church on Sunday…no matter what you did on Saturday night.

You said making time for parties and fun…and denying God was not right.

   Dad, you could fix anything… plumbing, electrical, the car, if we’d holler…

I knew you were smart, and you taught yourself, while trying to save a dollar.

   You liked to sit out on our steps… and watch the changing neighborhood.

You made your point of speaking to children and encouraging them to do good.

    If we were walking and you saw a weed in the sidewalk… you’d go back…

You always told me to pull it out… because, after winter, it would leave a crack.

   You graduated high school but once you told me you wished you had gone on to college.

Instead, you earned a Ph.D in common sense... the best kind of knowledge.

   I’ll admit, I took you for granted while growing up… you were always there.

And I was surprised when my friends would tell me they had no dad who cares..

   It was hard to believe that a man would make a baby… and simply leave…

but it’s happening every day… as more and more unmarried couples conceive.

   I’m just glad my dad stayed around… your example showed me the way.

I love you dad… and I want to say- thank you on this Father’s Day.

   I guess the best way to show my thanks to a very special man…

is by using your example, and working hard,

to be the best DAD I can.”

(C) 2004 Don Roberts, from the book, HEY DADDY READ THIS, IUniverse Publishing.


Happy Mothers’ Day!

May 12th, 2014 at 11:49 am by under 10 On Your Side, Community, Personalities, Uncategorized

My wife and I (and some good friends) saw the TEMPTATIONS and the FOUR TOPS last night (Sunday, 5-11-14) GRRRRRRREAT SHOW!!! Now, I know, both groups had their glory days seemingly “a hunnert” years ago, but the music is timeless.  Unfortunately, time has taken its toll on the groups. Each has only one original member, today. BUT, the new kids on the block provided a 20-14 FLAVOR that hooks a new crowd of any age, while doing justice to the LEGACY of MOTOWN. The replacement players have talent to spare.  And both the ‘TEMPTS & ‘TOPS “stepped” so hard, WE were out of breath just watching!!!

Ferguson Center features the Temptations & four Tops

Ferguson Center features the Temptations & four Tops

Now, here’s the really great part- we got to see them for FREE. (No, I didn’t pull a “Do You Know Who I Am?- ego trip ’cause I would have gotten my feelings hurt, big time). The tickets were “make-goods” from a February concert featuring the FIFTH DIMENSION and SPINNERS at CNU’s Ferguson Center.   Problem then was, the SPINNERS didn’t show up due to bad weather. We were on the edge of a major attitude, but, The “5th -D” had a cure for that- A FANTASTIC PERFORMANCE! Florence LaRue, again, the last of the 5 originals, led the new-crew in a fresh performance of their numerous hits from the ’60′s and ’70′s. And they flavored it with a touch of  Broadway. Their extended performance left us satisfied. But, about two days later, the professionals at CNU-FERGUSON CENTER called, emailed and sent letters- to all patrons, me included, APOLOGIZING and offering the make-goods, free tickets, for another show- best seats available. Nice!!

What we, the patrons, also didn’t know, was what happened behind the scenes to make sure somebody showed up to perform at all. When learning that members of both the 5th-D and SPINNERS were in trouble, “Lisa” and her crack compadres at CNU-FERGUSON, tried to rearrange flights, coordinate ground transportation -including personally picking up performers, their crew, and equipment, from Richmond, D-C or points beyond, because…. the SOLD OUT show must go on! Talk about “beyond and above!” Turns out- The Fifth Dimension was “the” show – that day, and they were enough! The make-good tickets were a bonus (as in hitting the LOTTERY-bonus. You gotta see the reconstituted ‘TEMPTS and ‘TOPS for yourself). Meanwhile- CNU -Ferguson, thank YOU. You made-good, alright! Your professional crew- made a great memory on this Mother’s Day!

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2 REASONS

April 22nd, 2014 at 11:01 am by under 10 On Your Side, Community, Health, Military, News, Personalities

Two reasons why I’ve been smiling while I walked the scenic NOLAND TRAIL in Newport News over the past week. I’ll be smiling again as I hit “trails” all over Hampton Roads in the next five days. ELIAS, my oldest daughter’s February blessing is on the left. And “LIL ROSCOE” (aka- LIAM) is my partner KATIE’s handsome boy, born last July. BABY Elias and mommy 16627_10152272982082930_123902686_n

These healthy infants have a great opportunity to grow to a ripe old age, and physically do whatever they want, thanks to the MARCH OF DIMES.  Wednesday through Sunday, I’ll be thinking of the boys as I pound the pavement with JIMMY RAY of “97-3 THE EAGLE.”  We start at the Country Club of Williamsburg, 7am, with the goal of reaching Patrick Henry Mall by about 11. And each day, we’ll take a bite out of the 80+ mile route, inching closer to the goal of the oceanfront. Check the link for each day’s effort.
During that first FOUR HOUR trek with JIMMY RAY, we’ll each have plenty of time to talk (I’ll do a lot of LISTENING) about how to solve every problem in the universe. But when we’re not flapping our gums, the quiet moments will be great for counting our blessings- two of which you see, here.

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Their moms knew what to do to help insure their successful births- thanks in large part to the work of the MARCH OF DIMES. In their words:   “We help moms have full-term pregnancies and healthy babies. If something goes wrong, we offer information and comfort to families. We research the problems that threaten our babies and work on preventing them.”
You may know someone who’s waiting for their little blessing right now. You can help them by supporting me and my walking buddy, Jimmy Ray. Better yet, just go right to the source, the March of Dimes. Send them a check -and on the memo line, just write in that name that’s your reason to smile.
Each day, our MARCH FOR BABIES will shine a spotlight on the MARCH OF DIMES and it’s support of research to prevent premature births and defects. Check out the link to the map of our daily route, follow our progress, cheer us on when you see us on the street AND PUH-LEEZE support the MARCH OF DIMES.  And to top it all off, join our MARCH FOR BABIES and WALK WITH US this SUNDAY, April 27, 2014, 830am at the VB oceanfront!


Nicole’s Notes: Free dental care, from the heart

March 12th, 2014 at 11:46 pm by under 10 On Your Side, Health, News, Personalities, Uncategorized

UPDATE : Racheal Judy emailed me today and said they broke a record over the weekend. The patient you see in this picture below is Melissa. She is thanking Dr. Tim Johnston, owner of Norge Dental Center, for saving 3 teeth that she would’ve lost in the next 6 months if she hadn’t gotten the proper care.

Norge Dental Care, Dentistry From The Heart

Norge Dental Care, Dentistry From The Heart

In the third year of the Dentistry From The Heart program, Judy  wrote:
 *   257 patients were seen
 *   over $100,000 of free dental work was provided completely for FREE
 *   913 dental services were performed (including exams, cleanings, fillings, etc)
 *   First patient arrived at 12:10 am to get in line.
 *   Event was supposed to end at 5:00 pm, but dentists stayed until 8:30 pm to make sure no one was turned away.
Look at these pictures.

What a way to start your new week – with a big healthy smile!

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There’s nothing like a clean fresh mouth! Some folks are scared to visit the dentist, but I just love how my teeth feel and look after my appointments. I realize everyone doesn’t have dental benefits or enough money to get the recommended cleanings and exams twice a year- and any other dental work that’s needed. And it can get expensive!

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Norge staff member with patient, 2013

There’s a local group of dentists and volunteers working to make sure anyone who needs, can get dental care. The Norge Dental Center in Williamsburg is hosting its free Dentistry From The Heart event on Saturday, March 22 at its offices on Richmond Road from 8:00 am until 4:00pm. Fillings, extractions, or cleanings will be performed for those 18 and older who can’t get dental care elsewhere. Registration starts at 7:30 am. Patients should arrive early and be dressed for a long wait in line. Also bring chairs, blankets, snacks and water. Patients will be seen on a first-come, first-served basis. Rachael Judy from Norge Dental reached out to me a couple of years ago about this event and she’s been following up ever since. She emailed me this after the clinic last year, “Our very first patient came at 10:20 pm the night before, and slept there to receive care! His name is William and he drove from Gates County, NC.  He and a few others camped outside.  We served over 200 patients with free dental care!   James was our patient who traveled the longest distance……He traveled from New Jersey to receive care.  We were able to save a tooth he would’ve lost had he waited much longer.”

Judy said they had over a dozen dentists volunteer their time. They came from their own practices to help their four Norge Dental Center dentists serve more people. For more information, visit their website or call (757) 941-7682.

We’d love to hear from you after your visit. Post your comments and share some pictures with me on Facebook.

 

 

 

 


An Afternoon Start to the Evening News

February 28th, 2014 at 4:39 pm by under 10 On Your Side, News, Personalities

It seems we’re all affected by something I call “time creep.”  Everything is starting a little earlier these days, and that would include 10 on your side, which has just launched a 4pm newscast.   It’s an early appetizer of the days events, and news happening now.  I couldn’t resist snapping off a few behind the scenes photos.  See you at 4! 

The gang is ready for WAVY News 10 at 4pm

The gang is ready for WAVY News 10 at 4pm


The Newsroom: Photos Behind the Scenes

February 20th, 2014 at 9:46 pm by under 10 On Your Side, News, Personalities, Uncategorized
WAVY Photojournalist Drew Smith on a night story.

WAVY Photojournalist Drew Smith on a night story.

By now, many of you know how much I enjoy photography, which walks hand in hand with storytelling.  I recently spent a few spare moments in between newscasts capturing the scenes of co-workers undertaking the daily responsibility of being on your side.  I hope I captured some of the serious work and light-hearted moments of  The Newsroom.   See photos here.


The newsroom’s top 5 at 5: Meeting of the minds

February 19th, 2014 at 3:41 pm by under 10 On Your Side, News, Personalities
WAVY producer Laura Mammarella listens to afternoon presentation with fellow producer David Craft

WAVY producer Laura Mammarella listens to afternoon presentation with fellow producer David Craft

It’s a twice daily event; a meeting of the minds, where we bounce ideas off of each other for stories to occupy slots in the late news.  The tone of these 3 pm meetings ranks somewhere between a business conference and a 2-for-1 happy hour (minus the drinks).   This meeting takes on special significance, since it marks the final afternoon conference for two talented producers:  Laura Mammarella is staying on the late news, with added responsibility.  But David Craft is moving to our daytime line-up, as we endure a bit of producer shuffle.  Laura has a quiet professional approach to the job, while David projects a booming personality, made bigger by an infectious laugh.  Strong story ideas pitched by Lauren Compton and Jason Marks made this affair brief.   You see more on our late news.  But first, today’s top 5 at 5.

1.)  2 dead on Maersk Alabama.    The former Navy SEALs, who worked for Virginia Beach based security firm,  were discovered Tuesday on the container ship, which was docked in Port Victoria in Seychelles off the coast of Africa.  Art Kohn is working his sources as I write this.    The Maersk Alabama was recently featured in the movie “Captain Phillips,” which was based on the story of the ship’s hijacking by pirates off the coast of Somalia in 2009.

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2.) Man accused of sexual battery at Norfolk school.   Anne McNamara is following a story which requires some serious digging.    A female student told police a man inside Bayview Elementary touched her inappropriately.   Police have charged him with aggravated sexual battery.  More details are coming at 5.

3.) Dodge tolls; pay the price.   Andy Fox explains why taking alternate routes to avoid tolls at the tunnels could cost you in a way you may not have considered.

4.)  New rules of the game?   Anita Blanton has found the Virginia High School League, an organization which regulates high school activities,  is considering new regulations on transgendered athletes.

5.)  Two Bucks could get you $400 million.   The only investment with that kind of yield is a powerball lottery ticket.   But such a lucrative payoff comes with odds of winning it all at 1-in-175 million.  In other words, you have a better chance of being crushed by a vending machine. 

David Craft listen to Asst.  News Directpr Mark Kurtz in afternoon meeting.

David Craft listen to Asst. News Directpr Mark Kurtz in afternoon meeting.

Nicole and I will see you at 5, and yes I will pony up a pair of George Washington portraits for that long shot, and avoid my next trip upstairs for that Diet Coke.

 


The Newsroom’s top 5 at 5: The weather breaks

February 18th, 2014 at 3:03 pm by under 10 On Your Side, News, Personalities, Uncategorized
Hampton Roads soars into the 60's, as meteorologist  Tiffany Savona works in the weather center.

Hampton Roads soars into the 60′s, as meteorologist Tiffany Savona works in the weather center.

 Everyone seems a little more excited  since the sun peaked through winter’s grey veil, and temperatures reached 60 plus degrees.   The newsroom is a little giddier, a little louder, and a lot busier.  In between chatter on who was on Fallon’s Tonight Show premiere, and tutorials from Jane Alverez-Wertz on how to post stories on WAVY.com, our team is working their sources and pulling together the big stories to watch from your community.   So, here are my top 5 things to watch during our 90 minutes of news beginning at 5.

1.)  Man accused of killing infant daughter.    Taking the life of an  innocent child perhaps is the most heinous crime one can commit.   Outrage is multiplied when you factor in this little girl was just five months old; totally dependent on someone for life, only to have it taken away.  Anne McNamara has the difficult task of sifting through the details of a story all of us wish would never have to report.

Photojournalist Aaron Kurtz edits Andy Fox's special report you'll see at 6.

Photojournalist Aaron Kurtz edits Andy Fox’s special report you’ll see at 6.

2.)  Murder suspect walks.  Andy Fox is once again asking the tough questions stemming from the case of Eric Nixon, an 18 year old accused of murder in the shooting death of a 16 year old at a carnival.   Andy broke this story last fall, and now has access to the internal investigation about how this could happen.  Andy has some startling revelations in his story: a must see at 6.

 3.) ”Fun” in funeral not funny.   This may be difficult for many of our viewers with ties to the military.  But two pictures posted to social media by a member of  the Wisconsin National Guard Funeral Honor Guard are sparking outrage.  You’ll see them on WAVY News 10 at 5.  One of the captions reads: “We put the ‘fun’ in funeral.”  The military is now investigating.

4.)  Community fires back on gun violence.    This weekend’s shooting just off the campus of Old Dominion University has obviosuly upset those who live in Lambert’s Point.  Lauren Compton is with them now at a civic league  meeting.   She’ll tell us what’s happening at 5:30.

5.)  Saturday snow days heating up.   We’ve been on this when the snow was still flying Virginia Beach.  Tonight, Stephanie Harris and Jason Marks are covering a proposal to drop a plan to make students attend school on two more Saturdays to make up for time lost during our winter storms.  Both will have reports during our 90 minutes of news, with Jason staying on the story for our late night news.

The first thing I see in the WAVY newsroom: Morning anchor Don Roberts finishing up his shift on a sunny Tuesday.

The first thing I see in the WAVY newsroom: Morning anchor Don Roberts finishing up his shift on a sunny Tuesday.

The sun looks inviting as morning anchor Don Roberts sits in silhouette finishing up his long day.  He gives me his usual “SEE yah” as I work in the friendly chatter of the WAVY newsroom.    All of us are thrilled that nature has broken winter’s icy grip, and thus gives Don Slater a break from our ”Top 5 at 5.”  

 


The Newsroom’s top 5 at 5: Art of over-communicating

February 17th, 2014 at 2:29 pm by under 10 On Your Side, Community, News, Personalities, Uncategorized
WAVY News Director Jim Gilchriest talking to Don Slater about forecast.

WAVY News Director Jim Gilchriest talking to Don Slater about forecast.

“Talk to each other, OVER-communicate!

That is one of the edicts from WAVY News Director Jim Gilchriest.  Reporters in the field have to talk to producers in the newsroom, who talk to the anchors when they come in, who talk to those working the assignment desk, who talk to reporters in the field.   To be ”on your side,” as we frequently pledge,  everyone has to know what everyone else is doing,  especially when that light goes on at 5pm in the studio.   That’s why I knock out my top 5 things you should watch for during our 90 minutes of news moments after I arrive.  It’s part of my over-communication process.

 1.)  Saturday school’s out?   Usually we’re powerless against nature, but a Virginia Beach school board member is fighting back after the effect of recent snowstorms.   10 on your side has learned that Joel McDonald will present a resolution to end those Saturday sessions.    Stephanie Harris is also gathering numbers on how many students attended class this weekend.    

2.)  Southern weather for a change.   Could Punxutawney Phil be a little off?  Maybe.  At least in Hampton Roads, winter will have a seat for the next several days instead of pounding us for the next month.   Just remember, that the only thing we can be sure about our weather is that it changes rapidly.   See the WAVY weather blogs for background, and be sure to catch Don Slater’s forecast at 5.       

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Meteorologists Don Slater and Tiffany Savona “tag- teaming” on weather information during a recent storm.

3.)   Frozen fishkill.       Our rapidly changing weather figures into much of our coverage tonight.   Liz Palka is investigating why dead fish are turning up in the waters around Virginia Beach, and it’s a cold reality check on what winter temperatures can do.

4.)  Pothole potshots.    Anita Blanton hit one.  I dodged a few on Brambleton Avenue on the way to work.  This winter thaw heats up  old problem, and we’re on your side pointing out where some of the worst craters await your vehicle, and most importantly, what VDOT will be doing about it.

5.)  The wrong man .   A local attorney is suing Norfolk police after they arrested Dahson Iraldo for the murder of an 86 year old barber in 2010.     Those charges against Iraldo were later dropped, and Ava Hurdle just interviewed Iraldo’s attorney over why they’ve filed this lawsuit.

As I write this summary, I hear police scanners and assignment editor Typhanny Wiggins talking about someone’s story.  It sounds like another example of our over-communication.  I better find out what’s going on, so we can tell you about it beginning at 5.